Most people who message us before a first visit ask about the price and the time. Then, a few messages later, they ask what they actually wanted to know: what happens once I’m in the room, and will I know what to do?
You don’t need to know what to do. Your masseuse leads the whole session. Still, it helps to know the order of things before you arrive, so here it is, exactly as a first tantric massage runs at our centre in Marbella.
Booking
Send us a WhatsApp message with the day and a rough time. That’s all we need. There’s no form and no account to create, and nobody will ask why you’re curious.
If you already know who you’d like, give us her name. All seven of our team are on the masseuses page, with photos and a short description of how each one works. If you have no preference, tell us what you’re hoping for and we’ll suggest someone. If the person you asked for is busy at that time, we’ll tell you so and offer another time or another masseuse. We won’t swap her without telling you.
We’re open every day from 10:00 to 23:00, by appointment only.
Finding us
We’re on Avenida Ricardo Soriano, Marbella’s main avenue, inside an ordinary office building. There’s no sign outside, so arriving looks like going to any other appointment. When you book, we’ll send you our step-by-step directions with photos: the shop on the corner, the walkway beside it, the door marked OFICINAS, then the bell marked MASSAGE and the lift to the first floor.
Try to arrive five minutes early. If you’re running late, send a message. It happens all the time.
The short talk
Before anything else, your masseuse sits with you for a few minutes, with both of you fully dressed. She’ll want to know:
- whether you’ve had a tantric massage before (most first-time guests haven’t)
- whether there’s anywhere you’d like her to avoid, such as an old injury, a ticklish spot, or simply somewhere you’d rather not be touched
- how you’d like the session to end
That last question surprises people, so it’s worth knowing about now. A tantric massage at our centre can stay deeply relaxing all the way through, or it can end with a “happy ending”, a manual finish. It’s your choice, it’s made before you start, and you can change your mind during the session. Whatever you choose, sexual intercourse is never part of it, with any of our services.
The shower
Every session starts and ends with a shower. Towels and everything else you need are ready for you. The shower is short, and it does more than you’d expect. It marks the point where the day outside stops.
The massage itself
You lie face down on a wide, low massage bed, a tatami. Your masseuse wears lingerie, and for the tantric massage she’s topless.
She’ll start with your breathing, slower and deeper than you’d normally breathe, and sometimes in rhythm with hers. It can feel a little odd for the first minute. It’s also the single thing that most affects how much you feel later, so go along with it.
The first part of the massage is done without oil, using only her hands and forearms, from your feet up to your head. It’s light, and it’s meant to wake your skin up rather than work on your muscles. Then comes warm oil and long, slow strokes over your whole body. The intimate areas are left alone at first. Attention gets there gradually, as you relax, and the slow build is what the massage is about.
A few things that are useful to know:
- You don’t need to talk. Plenty of guests say almost nothing for the whole hour.
- Your body may react, and that’s expected. Nobody will remark on it.
- You can touch her. Gentle caresses are welcome, apart from her intimate area. If you’re not sure, ask. She’ll tell you.
- You can stop or change anything at any moment. Slower, lighter, a break, stop altogether. Say it and it happens.
Almost everyone notices the same thing. For the first ten minutes or so your mind keeps commentating: am I doing this right, what comes next. Then it goes quiet. You don’t need to make that happen. It comes on its own once you stop expecting the next thing.
Afterwards
There’s time to rest. Nobody rushes you out. Then you shower again, get dressed and leave the way you came in, through an ordinary office door onto a busy avenue.
Most guests say the rest of the day feels slower, and that they sleep particularly well that night.
What to book the first time
The tantric massage. It’s €130 for 60 minutes or €200 for 90. If you can spare the extra half hour, take it, because the slow build has more room in 90 minutes. Men receive a lingam massage and women a yoni massage. It’s the same ritual at the same price.
Once you know you enjoy it, the rest of the massage menu builds from there. Body to body is closer and more intense, with both of you naked and skin to skin. The VIP massage adds cava, more interaction and a session shaped entirely around you.
If you’re coming over for an evening by the port, our Puerto Banús guide covers timings. If you’re a woman, or booking for your partner, read what a yoni massage is next.
Ask before you book
Ask us anything, including the questions that feel awkward to type. Message us on WhatsApp and you’ll get a straight answer, usually within minutes.
Frequently asked questions
Do I need to know anything about tantra?
No. Your masseuse guides everything, including your breathing. You only need to turn up and say what you’re comfortable with.
Is 60 minutes enough for a first visit?
Yes, 60 minutes is a complete session. If you can, choose 90 minutes (€200): the slow build is what makes a tantric massage, and it has more room in 90 minutes.
Does every session end with a happy ending?
Only if you want it to. You decide in the short talk before the massage, and you can change your mind during it.
Can I choose my masseuse?
Yes. Look through the profiles and give us a name when you book. If she isn’t free at that time, we’ll tell you.
Can women book a tantric massage?
Yes. For women it’s a yoni massage, at the same price. You can choose one of our masseuses or Tony, our masseur.
Is it discreet?
Yes. There’s no sign on the building, the room is yours for the whole session, and we won’t contact you afterwards unless you ask us to.
